Shadow work • Embodiment • Eros • Integration
For the mom who has everything she’s supposed to want…
and who wonders, somewhere between the lunchbox and the laundry, if this is really all there is to life.
Your inner lioness hasn’t left.
She’s just taking a nap.
[Start with the Initiation · 21 days · $44]
Your body already knows the way.
The first one performs. She delivers. Reliable, capable, there for everyone. She even remembers the dentist appointments.
She’s done her work, she can name her attachment style, her inner child, her nervous system.
Sound familiar?
You can check off your whole list in a day and go to bed at night feeling like something’s missing. Where’s the wow? The pat on the back for everything you do?
You avoid certain conversations. Certain desires. Certain truths.
And when someone asks you what you really want, it excites you and scares you a little at the same time.
It’s not because you haven’t worked on yourself enough.
It’s not a lack of discipline, gratitude, or courage.
The second woman?
She has the same kids, the same laundry, the same packed schedule.
But she’s in it.
She laughs loud.
She says no without justifying.
She has plenty of desires and wants, and she allows herself to have them.
It has nothing to do with your job, your relationship, your kids, or your overbooked schedule.
And it’s definitely not because you’re too intense, too demanding, or too complicated.
It’s just that all the energy you put into avoiding what you don’t want isn’t the same as creating what you do want.
Avoiding conflict isn’t creating peace.
Managing your pain isn’t living your joy.
Surviving the difficult isn’t inhabiting the possible.
The absence of what you don’t want doesn’t mean the presence of what you do want.
And that can’t be fixed in your head. You’ve already tried.
It gets fixed in your body. Where you’ve stored everything you didn’t have time to feel.
And what you’d never dare say into a mic in front of a hundred people?
There is your power.
My 8-year-old son came up with the name.
I asked him what his experience was like having me as a mom.
“You’re definitely a lioness, Mom.”
A lioness doesn’t teach her cubs how to hunt by explaining.
She takes them into the field, to play.
(And she’ll rip your face off if you touch her babies.)
That’s how I work.
I don’t explain your body to you. I bring you into it.
What does that actually look like?
You shake yourself until your body stops performing.
You growl. Like, for real.
Everyone laughs the first time. Then something shifts.
You let out the sound you’ve been swallowing since your first baby.
You get on all fours and you move like no one ever showed you how to move.
You cry if it cries. You laugh if it laughs. Often both.
Then we slow down. We breathe. We land.
We talk about what just happened and what you want to take home.
It’s like yoga. But not.
The 3 Phases of the Method
All of this in a space where NOTHING IS TOO MUCH.
1 · Wake Her Up
We get you out of your head and back into your skin. Shaking, breathing, sound. Most of all, we discover just how much you’re allowed to be loud.
2 · Let Her Roar
Anger, shame, jealousy, power, taking up space. Everything good girls learned to swallow. We give it a place to go.
3 · Let Her Play
Desire, pleasure, asking for what you want. Out loud. Without apologizing first.
Going into the heavy, without making it heavy.
Not to fix you.
To remind you that you never needed fixing.
Then I grew up and forgot that version of myself.
As a teen, I drank way too much alcohol and slept with guys I didn’t know.
I felt almost nothing.
Real estate broker at 20. Top 3% at 22. Six-figure income.
I still felt nothing.
Then I became a mom, and my libido shut down. For three years.
Therapy twice a week. All the books. It helped. It didn’t bring it back.
August 2021. A four-day online retreat. I booked the only sacred space a real estate broker knows: a hotel conference room. With wi-fi.
DAY ONE, I’m initiated into orgasmic meditation. Glass walls everywhere. So I slid under the conference table, in my corporate dress, heart pounding like a teenager about to get caught.
I’m alive. I’m alive. I’m ALIVE.
That same afternoon, I created my first altar in the basement of my real estate office.
Then I cried for four days.
What happened in that basement became The Lioness Method.
Since then, I’ve studied relationships with Jordan Gray, Tony Robbins, Lisa A. Romano, Rising Woman and Alison Armstrong, sexual energy, eros and embodying all of it in the body with Demetra Gray, Perri Chase and Jaiya & Ian, and I’m certified in Ecstatic Leadership with Anahita Ahura.
Over 5 years of devotion and six-figure investments.
and a body that never lies.
Today, I’m a mom of two homeschooled kids, somatic coach, co-founder of Espace Nature (a space that brings together homeschooling families), and a hyper-competent-hyper-independent-woman-who-knows-how-to-do-everything-and-does-everything-alone in remission.
The women in my life often ask me how I manage to do everything I do and look so alive and full of joy.
This is how.
You say no, and you don’t send a text afterward to apologize.
You order the cheesecake, the XXL latte, the girls’ night, the oral sex. Without negotiating with yourself first.
Yes please, thank you very much. Mmmmhhmmmm.
You catch yourself mid-“it’s fine, I should be grateful for what I have”… and you finally tell yourself:
NO. It’s not fine.
Your kid has a meltdown at the grocery store and, for once, you don’t lose it with them. You stay there, and you love them there.
You feel creative, inspired, full of desires. For your partner, for a nap, for the project you’d set aside. And when it comes to you, instead of talking yourself out of it and telling yourself it’s not important or not worth it, you honor yourself first.
You laugh from deep in your belly.
Loud. In public.
Not because you became someone else.
Because you stopped swallowing yourself.
It’s what happens when a woman stops choosing from the menu and starts creating the dish.
Real side effect, reported by a real client:
“I sweated all night when that never happens to me. My body is already releasing. I woke up dehydrated, wtf. I feel like I have a hangover, but I didn’t drink.”
· Mélanie, 1:1 client
All levels are welcome. Your body will only open what’s ready to open.
“Even in deep and confronting work, Raphaëlle brings a lightness and gentleness that make the process surprisingly accessible. With her, it’s easy to go there.”
· Nadine, 1:1 work during our Ecstatic Leadership certification
“Monday was very difficult. A lot of anger and impatience, emotions rising to the surface. Tuesday, softer. And since Wednesday, I’ve been feeling really good. I accept the less pleasant emotions, I don’t bury them. The hypervigilance is almost gone. I’m relearning to do everything while being present, even the dishes that I always used to rush through!”
· Ébrielle, women’s circle
“We are brave women who jump without a parachute, and you are the net that catches us gently, without constraining us, safely despite a sometimes uncomfortable framework.”
· Josée, women’s circle
“It’s clear I have a lot of anger, a sense of injustice. I’m still navigating that, but Sunday helped me admit my emotions and accept them. The goal isn’t to erase them.”
· Ann-Mary, women’s circle
“Since Sunday, I’ve been less hypervigilant.”
· Weena, women’s circle
“Don’t be fooled by her gentleness and patience! She’s not afraid to defend her clients’ interests when necessary.”
· Real estate client
The women’s circles are co-facilitated with Karine Beaudry.
The entry point.
21 days to wake up your lioness, in a small group of moms.
3 live 2-hour calls on Zoom · a private Telegram group · voice messages from me every day
Perfect if you want to taste the method before diving in.
[Start the Initiation] (in English for now)
To go deeper, just you and me.
We work on what you’re actually living: your relationship, your patterns, your anger, your desire, your voice.
Online or IN PERSON (Saint-Apollinaire, Quebec)
Perfect if you’ve already done a lot of work on yourself and you’re ready to go into the heavy, without making it heavy.
This is for you if…
You seem fine, but inside, you feel a little numb, tired, or strangely disconnected from your own life.
You love your kids like crazy, and you miss the woman you were before them. Both are true.
Your relationship feels more like a logistics meeting than a love story.
You want a devoted, erotic, and alive love, and you’re tired of waiting for it to happen by magic.
You know your patterns by heart. You can name them, analyze them, explain them. But naming them hasn’t changed them.
You’ve been the strong one for so long that the part of you that wants to be held, seen, softened never gets a voice.
You want your kids to grow up with a rooted and alive mother, not a mother who sacrificed herself so everyone could be comfortable.
You’re a little scared to growl in front of someone. And you’re a little excited to do it anyway.
This is not for you if…
You want to lie on a mat while someone plays a singing bowl over you. Here, we move. We make noise.
You’re looking for talk therapy. Here, it’s body first. And if you’re in crisis right now, seek help from a mental health resource first.
You want someone to fix you or tell you what to do with your life. I’ll guide you, but you decide.
If your body is vibrating reading this, you’re in the right place.
If you’re still here,
you already know.Your body recognized something on this page even before your mind finished reading.
You don’t need more information.
You need permission to want what you already want.And that permission, no one’s going to come give it to you.
It’s between you and you.
But if you want someone to hold you while you take it…
I’m here.
We go at your pace.Your lioness has slept long enough.
For the woman ready to inhabit her life
